The Covert Passive Aggressive Narcissist by Debbie Mirza
was voted one of the top 16 Best Books on Narcissism
by a team of licensed therapists and doctors.
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Hello Beautiful Soul,

If you came here because you are currently in a relationship that is confusing and exhausting, believe me, I understand. Maybe you are with someone who appears kind, is well liked, maybe even a “pillar of the community”, but for some reason while you’ve been with this person your self-image has plummeted, your health has been affected, and you’ve been gaslighted so much you are questioning what is even true about yourself and this relationship. This could be your parent, friend, coworker, partner, or spouse.

You might be doubting yourself a lot.

You may be experiencing the deepest betrayal you never thought would happen.

You may have experienced very subtle devaluing and demeaning behavior for years and didn’t recognize it.

You are not alone.

I am glad you are here.

I am the author of The Covert Passive Aggressive Narcissist: Recognizing the Traits and Finding Healing after Hidden Emotional and Psychological Abuse and The Safest Place Possible: A Guide to Healing and Transformation.

After spending years working on my own clarity and healing after experiencing covert narcissists I decided to write a book about this incredibly confusing and crazy making form of narcissism to help others be able to see clearly.

If this is your situation, you will find helpful resources on this website including online courses (Parenting When Your Ex is a Covert Narcissist, Healing After Narcissistic Abuse, and Starting Your Own Support Group), books, guided meditations, a link to my YouTube channel, a link to an online support group, and music to help relax your nervous system and uplift your deserving heart.

The knowledge and recognition of this type of narcissism is fairly recent information. At this point therapists are not educated on this type, and understandably often miss the signs. My hope is this changes in the future and that my book will be part of the curriculum.

If you are looking for more information on covert narcissism, you can receive a free chapter of my book when you subscribe to my newsletter. Reading this will help you know if this is what you are experiencing.

Please know that you are worthy of love, kindness, and respect. There are answers and there is hope.

With love,

Debbie Mirza