Coaching with Debbie
Debbie is a restorative coach and the bestselling author of The Covert Passive Aggressive Narcissist, Worthy of Love, and The Safest Place Possible.
She works with people who are coming out of covert narcissistic relationships.
She is known as a restorative coach, because she helps people come back to the truth of who they really are so they can stand fully in the power of their own self-sovereignty.
Debbie has experienced several covert narcissists in her life. She has been there, and understands the deep pain and confusion that comes from these relationships. Using her own knowledge, experience, and life coach training, she is passionate about seeing others find freedom, love and clarity after years of subtle manipulation and psychological abuse.
She has a wealth of knowledge on the subject of covert narcissism as well as a compassionate heart that cares deeply about your well-being.
Debbie’s coaching schedule does fill up quickly. If no appointments are available, keep checking back here for updates. She makes an effort to open up more spots when her schedule allows for that.
Coaching sessions are held over zoom. You have the option of either a video session or audio. Whatever you feel the most comfortable with. A link to the Zoom call will be emailed to you after scheduling a session, as well as a reminder a day before the session.
To schedule a session, click the “Book Now” button below.
Each session is 60-minutes in length.
Cancellation Policy: Debbie is happy to reschedule your appointment, if something unavoidable and understandable comes up. Your money will not be refunded, as Debbie has many people on a waiting list and believes in being fair to others as well as to herself.
Testimonials
“I have been going to therapy for five years. One session with Debbie was more helpful then the five years of therapy put together.”
“Being coached by Debbie Mirza was an absolute pleasure. I had really been going through it when I found out about Debbie’s book and coaching services. Coming out of an 8-year relationship with a covert Narcissist, I thought I was going crazy. I just could not believe how close the things she had said in her book and during our coaching session was to what I had been going though in my relationship. It was almost as if she had been a fly on the wall all throughout the time I was with my ex, giving word-for-word examples and statements that were spoken to me during the relationship. To me Debbie displayed exceptional understanding of the topic. A topic which is so greatly needed today. There are 2 extremes here, one in that the number of people going through this is exceptionally high, and two that the amount of information and coaches who know about this are really low. At no point during the coaching session did I feel that Debbie was doing this for financial gain, as some coaches might portray, especially if they do not have a firm grasp of the topic at hand. First, it is so hard to describe and put into words just how valuable and validating the book was. Second, the coaching provided really gave a lot clarity to the situation I had been going through. If not for these 2 resources I would not be able to see myself being where I am in my current stage of healing today. I am doing great now, and Debbie was a big part of that.”
“Debbie has a way of weeding through confusing thoughts and feelings and getting to the heart of what is really going on. She has helped me get “unstuck” in some areas of my life with which I had struggled for years. I am amazed at the difference even one session with her made in the way I am living life now. She listens with such compassion; and the tools she uses, combined with her incredible intuition, have been truly life-changing for me. When I talk with Debbie, I feel as if my true self has been invited out to be heard.”
“Debbie is a soulful, calm, accepting presence who really allows the heart of the matter to be brought forth in coaching. I think it is her own grounded-ness and authenticity that creates such a safe space for my own true self to show up with honest attention to what needs sorting. She’s really listening for what’s important and what is true for me and so beautifully reflects back to me my own wisdom, which has been quite a gift to me in our work together. I highly recommend her as a coach.”
“Debbie is such a bright light for victims discovering they’re in an abusive relationship. After reading Debbie’s book, I scheduled a few coaching calls with her that brought so much clarity and have been an anchor and reference point to me in the months since. She is well-versed in covert narcissism and gave me more insight in one session than years of therapy. As I explained a situation with my husband in which I was being blamed and feeling guilty and my belief that if I could just do more, I could fix the situation (classic narcissist behavior!), she helped me see it for what it was: blame shifting and a tactic by him to create chaos. She then gave me such strong encouragement that I was brought to tears of relief, knowing that the strength I needed I already possessed. I am grateful for Debbie for being a beacon of light guiding victims out of the darkness.”
“Early on in my high conflict divorce from a covert, overt, passive aggressive narcissist with sociopathic tendencies (whew!), a friend recommended Debbie’s book. It honestly changed my life...I slurped up the audiobook like a slurpee and immediately felt inspired and empowered. Something I had not felt in so long! I knew I needed more and went to her website and signed up for her coaching...another blessing! Debbie helped me navigate the most traumatic time of my life, where many just do not understand, to no fault of their own. Debbie is genuine and cared about me and my healing, growth, and recovery. I felt Debbie was authentically invested in me and my progress. She has given me the confidence to trust myself and the tools to recognize these toxic behaviors, signs and characteristics. I would encourage and recommend Debbie for guidance, help and encouragement. She is a true treasure and she has blessed my life immensely.”
“Being coached by Debbie is a wonderful experience. Her laser insight, gently delivered, combines with a warm and genuine caring that you feel immediately. She is welcoming, kind, intuitive and brings a curiosity that helps to quickly get to the issue at hand. I felt safe, guided and ready to move forward with her and look forward to working with her again! Thanks, Debbie, for bringing yourself so fully to our session.”