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The Covert Passive Aggressive Narcissist: Finding Healing After Hidden Emotional and Psychological Abuse is the most comprehensive and helpful book on the topic of covert narcissism.

This type of narcissism is one of the most damaging forms because the abuse is so hidden and so insidious. You can be in a relationship that can last for decades and not realize you are being psychologically and emotionally controlled, manipulated, and abused.

“This book is the light in the tunnel for anyone who's been down the crazy-making path of a relationship with a covert narcissist.” - Amazon Review 

“This. Book. Changed my life.” – Amazon Review

“I can’t put this book down.” – Amazon Review

“If I could give this book 1 million stars I would. This book will answer your question; is the individual in my life that is causing me so much confusion and pain Narcissistic?”  - Amazon Review

 “After reading this book, I felt like a heavy weight had been lifted from my chest. Finally, a book that can alleviate your fears of feeling crazy or misunderstood. Nothing I’ve read has so accurately nailed it for me.” – Amazon Review 

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Narrated by Debbie Mirza 

This is a must "hear" for anyone that ever was or is in a relationship with a Covert Narcissist. Hearing this was like listening to my life with my e-wife, my Covert Narcissist. Thank you Debbie for writing this book. Your narration was truly great!” - Audible Review

“I’ve read several books on narcissism and personality disorders searching for answers as to what happened with my marriage and to explain my CN ex-husband. While they were all helpful, none of these books explained my situation precisely until I read this book. It hit the nail on the head - exactly. I couldn’t have described it better myself. I now can put my finger on it and just being able to define him has helped me tremendously. Thank you, Debbie. This book is exactly what I needed.” - Audible Review



Traducción al español ya disponible.

El narcisista agresivo pasivo secreto: encontrar la curación después del abuso emocional y psicológico oculto es el libro más completo y útil sobre el tema del narcisismo encubierto. Este tipo de narcisismo es una de las formas más dañinas porque el abuso es muy oculto y tan insidioso. Puede estar en una relación que puede durar décadas y no darse cuenta de que está siendo controlado, manipulado y abusado psicológicamente y emocionalmente.


Now Available on Audio! Narrated by the author. Click here for the audio version!

The Safest Place Possible is a journey of healing through self-love.

This book is both a memoir as well as being a helpful guide for your own transformation.

If you have lost yourself in an unhealthy relationship and want to find your way back to who you really are, if you have had the rug pulled out from under you, if you are experiencing anxiety and fear, if you are unsure of your future, this is the book for you.

Debbie takes you through her own vulnerable journey of healing and restoration.

 The book gives 21 practical exercises to use that will radically change your life. They will gently guide you to a new way of being with yourself.

 You will feel loved and held as you make your way back to who you were meant to be in this world.

“I've read a lot of books on how to live a life of joy and peace, but this book surprised me. It is not a "how to be happy in 5 easy steps" manual. It is about how to come back to peace again and again in the middle of a REAL life. The author lets us into her own life in such a vulnerable way while filling each chapter with such depth. It truly felt like I was being given secret life lessons from a wise friend ahead of me in the journey.” – Amazon Review

“This book is a beautiful gift -- the author's stories WILL change you from the inside out. When I began reading, I was so struck by the kindness and the love in the author's words, like she was in the room with me, talking to me with such love. You will, too. This book will give you guidance and permission to be more loving and compassionate with yourself - to honor your emotions and to trust yourself deeply.” - Amazon Review

“Made me Laugh and cry and heal! If in doubt please get it. Worth every dollar and more.” - Amazon Review

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This companion workbook has all the exercises Debbie talks about in her book, The Safest Place Possible. It is a great way to apply the things she talked about to your own life, so you can heal and transform the relationship you have with yourself. 

It is also a helpful guide for book clubs and meet up support groups.

“Love Debbie's way of speaking and guiding you with love, compassion and understanding.” - Amazon Review

“I love this! Was just what I needed! Worth the few extra dollars to keep you thinking and working on yourself!” - Amazon Review