Welcome! I am Debbie Mirza 

I am the author of The Covert Passive Aggressive Narcissist: Recognizing the Traits and Finding Healing after Hidden Emotional and Psychological Abuse and The Safest Place Possible: A Guide to Healing and Transformation.

After spending years working on my own clarity and healing after experiencing covert narcissists I decided to write a book about this incredibly confusing and crazy making form of narcissism to help others be able to see clearly.

My coaching practice is now solely focused on helping people who are coming out of relationships with covert narcissists, or realizing they are currently in a relationship with one or have been raised by one or two.

If this is your situation, you will find many helpful resources on this website like online courses, guided meditations, and healing music.

If you are wondering if you are with a covert narcissist but aren’t certain, there is a free quiz you can sign up to take at the bottom of the page. When you sign up you will also receive emails from me letting you know about upcoming events and helpful new resources.

You may feel overwhelmed and confused right now after beginning to see the truth about someone you have loved deeply. You are not alone. There are literally millions of other people experiencing the same thing. This is an epidemic that spans the globe. I have coached people from the U.S.A., Australia, Cyprus, Lithuania, Iran, India, Malaysia, the U.K. and Spain. The cultures are different, but the stories are remarkably the same.

Please know that you are worthy of love, kindness, and respect. There are answers and there is hope.

With love, Debbie

Looking for support? Here are some resources that will help you see clearly and heal…

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